Can He Mend His Cheating Ways ?

You have probably been told something along the lines of: once a cheater; always a cheater many times in your life. But, is it true? If he cheats once is it a sure sign that he's going to cheat again? Or, is this one of those old wife's tales that are designed to stop the "other women" from trying to take away married men?

Believe it or not you can reform your man's cheating ways if the two of you truly and genuinely love one another. There have actually been some high profile adultery cases getting a fair share of media attention these days.

All eyes are turned to one certain golf pro who shall remain nameless as the world tries to prove (or disprove as the case may be) that you can teach an old dog new tricks. In other words, that you can teach a man who has no concept of monogamy to keep his pants on for all others but his wife.

The problem is that this particular case is one rare exception to the rule. Most men do not have an abundance of women following them around ready to stop, drop, and roll at the first opportunity. The odds are good that unless you are dating a certain pro golfer or a rock star along the way this is not likely to happen to you. Even better news for you though is that you will probably find it much easier to rehabilitate your cheating man than this man's wife has in store.

So the short answer to the question of whether or not a man can mend his cheating ways is: (drum roll please) yes. He can absolutely manage to find his way back onto the straight and narrow. The better question to ask is what is it going to take to make that happen?

The first thing you should know is that men don't generally cheat for no reason. There is something the other woman is offering that he isn't getting at home (a possible exception would be the case mentioned above but even then there is something not right for that level infidelity).

This does not mean it's the wife's fault her husband cheats. He is a grown man and knows right from wrong. He needs to take responsibility for his actions and accept the potential consequences. It does mean that you did not have a perfect marriage until he decided to cheat.

If you want to prevent him from cheating in the future you are going to have to find out the root of the problem now and fix it fast. The two of you are going to have to work together to set things right and keep them right.

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